The excitement about choosing a gift for me is about matching what I believe the recipient might like & the message I’d like to convey (if any). One of the best gifts I once received was in the print (in very small letters) which I discovered time after receiving the gift. How could I have missed that bit then … and in the present moment of the discovery – yet another gift. The inexplicit – that’s what drives me [crazy, too] in choosing a gift. At present.